How Do I Help My Mom?

it is pro-able legal if he cant speak for his-self she is the one the hospital and doctors will listen to and maybe the court because if he cant work how is he going to be able to make the payments she would be the next of kin unless he had papers made out telling other wise im sorry your family is having such a bad time right now try to get along with the new wife sometimes you can get more done by playing nice